最近最深的感受：作為父母，真是一條漫漫的學習路程！
這二~三個禮拜以來
小乖常常哭鬧，喝奶的量也不若以往的正常
我在想是不是因為她有一點小感冒(流鼻水+小咳嗽)...
我可以理解並體會孩子哭起來的時候，並不是一定那麼好安撫的
並且給予她我最大的耐心和愛
有時候爸爸因為工作關係很累很煩
加上小乖一哭鬧，脾氣就上來了...
常要我放著讓她哭一下，哭累了就沒事了
但我的顧慮是，我還沒辦法正確的分辨她是不舒服的哭還是鬧鬧的哭
因此我做不到放著讓她哭....
小乖哭的聲嘶力竭的時候也是有的
我的心情也很難不被影響
但我總是告訴自己，她只是個小Baby，她也不願意這樣哭的，必定是有哪裡不對了...
希望在"媽媽"這個工作做久一點以後，我可以更上手
可以很容易分辨小乖哭鬧的原因，進而給她穩定、安寧、愉快的生活
四個月了
時間照著自己的步伐在走
前年的今天，我還去看"世紀回眸‧宋美齡"舞台劇
然後留下來看101煙火
現在，我只想和家人一起，看著小乖的天使般的笑臉、安寧的睡容，好好的跨年...
其實，這篇文字很沒有系統吧...
只是在看了"媽媽是最初的老師"這個部落格以後
心中有好多感觸
好希望自己也可以用一種從容而健康的態度
教導出一個令人驕傲的孩子！
ANYWAY，各位好朋友們，新年快樂！！
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媽媽路怎麼都不容易 但 我知道你行的! 你是我最棒的姐呢!
謝謝妳的加油喔！請好好照顧自己，也好好照顧媽媽喔！
Hiya Zoe, I can totally relate to how you feel ... Even 'till this day, I still cannot just sit there and watch Drake cry...especially at night time when he wakes up crying ... I just don't want him to feel that he's all alone... Everybody thinks that I'm spoiling him by always picking him up and holding him or rocking him to sleep every time he gets up and cries at night. I just think that it'd be much better if the very last of his memories right before he falls asleep is that he's safe in mommy's arms... warm and cozy. I don't want him to cry to sleep. Never ever! Plus, I do agree with you that there's always a reason why the baby wakes up crying... Maybe sometimes all they want is simply a hug from their mommies or daddies~ ;) Hang in there! Mama Zoe! =)
Dear Amy、that is exactly how I feel!!!! well、it really needs a Mom to know how a Mom feel! So glad that there is someone really knows the feeling~~